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                                                  STROKES ARE VERY CHALLENGING 
In late September, Willie, our housemate of forty years, now age ninety-one, had a fairly severe stroke that left her right side--face, hand, leg--badly impaired.  After she had a brief hospital stay and two weeks of intense therapy at a rehab facillity, we decided that her continued recovery would be best served by bringing her home.  It was, we believe, the best course of action, even though the first couple of weeks here at home left Dorothy and me exhausted because Willie needed contant help day and night with nearly everything.  Three months later, the situation has stabilized somewhat and Willie is capable of some self-care.  With the help of sessions with Visiting Nurses twice a week and coaching from us, she has regained  the ability to use her right hand to write, can move around adeptly in a wheelchair at night and a walker during the day.  She's beginning to learn how to walk with a cane.  We've been able to take some outings to see her MD and to get a Covid shot (Covid is running rampant in Western Massachusetts since the holidays) at her pharmacy.  She loves playing balloon tennis (batting an inflated balloon back and forth with a racquet, a good balance exercise). She has a long way to go, and it's not at all certain how much she will have recovered by six months post-stroke.  Our lives have been largely Willie centered for months now and probably will remain at least somewhat so for the foreseeable future.  Wish us luck.  We welcome your prayers.

Spring Has Come Again

We call this magnolia Francis's Tree

Every year towards the end of April our backyard magnolia tree (pictured here) attempts to bloom.  The chief reason why it doesn't always succeed is that we often get hit with with an early spring frost, which nips the flowers in the bud, leaving them shriveled and brown.  Happily, that hasn't happened now for several springs in a row.

 

Forty years ago we excavated the place where theis magnolia used to be located in order to construct the large addition that serves as Willie's apartment.  At that point, the magnolia was no more than five feet tall and not doing well at all.  In fact, since it was late winter the tree's limbs were still bare.  It wasn't clear that it was still alive.   But we asked the contractor to scoop it up in a front loader and move it to its present location.  We didn't have much faith that it would survive.

 

Why Francis's Tree?  Our cat at the time was named Francis.  The evening after the tree had been moved, he strolled out to the excavation site past the magnolia's old location.  When he came to the top of a dirt pile, he saw the magnolia ahead, perhaps thirty feet from where it had been that morning.  He stopped in his tracks and stared at the tree.  Then he looked over his shoulder to where it had been and then turned back to look at it where it was now.  What to call the look on his face?  Puzzlement (trees don't move, do they?) or astonishment that the magnolia had obviously moved.  It was a great moment in McFarland family lore.

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